Do you watch a lot of movies? and how much is a lot?
What was the last movie that you saw?
Have you ever walked out of a movie?
What was the last movie you left? why?
How do you pick the movies that you see?
Do you have a favorite critic?
Do you use a website to help you decide to see a movie? Rotten Tomatoes? Screenit? kids-in-mind? other?
What's the most important factor for you when choosing whether or not to see a movie? The story? The Dialogue? The Camerawork? Special Effects? Reviews? Content? Rating? Actors/ Actresses? Other?
Which of these factors influence your decision the most?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains substantial alcohol or drug use?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if the good guy smokes? what about the bad guy? what if lot of people are smoking?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains a lot of blood and gore?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains disrespectful or bad attitudes?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains frightening scenes?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains a lot of guns and weapons? what about fictional weapons? laser cats?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains bad behavior that could be imitated?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains scenes that make you jump?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains scary or tense music?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains inappropriate music?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains profanity?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains blasphemy?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains sex or nudity?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains tense family scenes?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains topics to talk about?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains violence?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains gambling?
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Questions for Couples: Money Number II
Because Money matters are such important issues relationships, and there are so many of them we have decided to post a second entry that deals with money. Most likely there will be more money questions to come.
Do you use a budget? How closely do you follow it?
How do you feel about car insurance? Are you insured?
Do you prefer a high deductible or a low deductible?
Do you get the minimum coverage, the maximum coverage, or something in the middle.
Do you have or would you buy homeowners insurance? Renters insurance?
How do you feel about life insurance?
Do you prefer Whole-life or term-life? Do you actually know what the differences are?
How do you feel about HSA's(Health Savings Accounts)? Do you have one?
Do you prefer HSA's or Health insurance?
Are you saving for retirement?
Do you manage your retirement monies or does someone else?
Does your company have a pension plan?
Do you have an IRA?
Do you prefer Roth IRA's or traditional IRA's?
What do you think is the best method to save for retirement?
a)I'm not concerned about that yet
b)I like IRA's
c)I like savings bonds
d)Mutual funds
e)T-notes
f)Money Market
g)In a checking account
h)I keep it under the mattress... I mean it's not under the mattress, but that seems the safest. Ü
i)GOLD Bullion
j)I think the stock market is best (if yes, choose one of the following)
l)I like a combination of some of these options
m)I'm planning to win the lottery (I have a system Ü)
n)Other
How do you feel about playing the lottery?
Do you gamble? Are you addicted?
Do you play the slots? if yes do you prefer the cheap ones, or the bigger slots
Do you play poker? Which kind do you prefer?
How do you feel about blackjack?
Roulette? Keno? Craps?
Is bingo Gambling?
What if it's free?
Would you stay at a casino for a business trip? for a family vacation?
Is it gambling if the casino gives you a free credit, some chips, or some money to play with?
If you gamble how much would you spend at one time? On the same trip?
In a year?
Do you bet on sports?
Do you bet on horses?
How do you feel about friendly wagers?
What about potentially embarrassing wagers or deals?
Would you tell your spouse about the money you won through one of these methods?
What about the money you lost? Would the amount make a difference?
Do you use a budget? How closely do you follow it?
How do you feel about car insurance? Are you insured?
Do you prefer a high deductible or a low deductible?
Do you get the minimum coverage, the maximum coverage, or something in the middle.
Do you have or would you buy homeowners insurance? Renters insurance?
How do you feel about life insurance?
Do you prefer Whole-life or term-life? Do you actually know what the differences are?
How do you feel about HSA's(Health Savings Accounts)? Do you have one?
Do you prefer HSA's or Health insurance?
Are you saving for retirement?
Do you manage your retirement monies or does someone else?
Does your company have a pension plan?
Do you have an IRA?
Do you prefer Roth IRA's or traditional IRA's?
What do you think is the best method to save for retirement?
a)I'm not concerned about that yet
b)I like IRA's
c)I like savings bonds
d)Mutual funds
e)T-notes
f)Money Market
g)In a checking account
h)I keep it under the mattress... I mean it's not under the mattress, but that seems the safest. Ü
i)GOLD Bullion
j)I think the stock market is best (if yes, choose one of the following)
- As long as you buy the Blue chips
- I think penny stocks offer the best returns
- You won't make the big gains, if you don't take the big risks
- I like a diverse portfolio
- Other
l)I like a combination of some of these options
m)I'm planning to win the lottery (I have a system Ü)
n)Other
How do you feel about playing the lottery?
Do you gamble? Are you addicted?
Do you play the slots? if yes do you prefer the cheap ones, or the bigger slots
Do you play poker? Which kind do you prefer?
How do you feel about blackjack?
Roulette? Keno? Craps?
Is bingo Gambling?
What if it's free?
Would you stay at a casino for a business trip? for a family vacation?
Is it gambling if the casino gives you a free credit, some chips, or some money to play with?
If you gamble how much would you spend at one time? On the same trip?
In a year?
Do you bet on sports?
Do you bet on horses?
How do you feel about friendly wagers?
What about potentially embarrassing wagers or deals?
Would you tell your spouse about the money you won through one of these methods?
What about the money you lost? Would the amount make a difference?
Questions for Couples: Physical Appearance
How do you feel about tattoos?
Do you have any tattoos? If yes how many?
Do you like tattoos that people can see? that are covered?
Do you want to get any tattoos?
What kind of tattoos do you like most?
If you got a tattoo, where would you put?
What would be your reason for getting or not getting a tattoo?
How do you feel about Henna Tattoos? Are they the same as permanent tattoos or different? Why?
What about tattoos from a candy wrapper? Costume tattoos?
Would you consider 'permanent make-up' that could be tattooed on a good solution? Would you have it done to you?
Do you have any piercings? Ears? Face? Other?
How do you feel about piercings on Guys? How many should a guy have?
How do you feel about piercings on Girls? How many should a girl have?
How do you feel about non-traditional piercings like the top of the ear, nose, cheek?
How do you feel about cultural piercings?
Would you want your children to have any piercings?
Would you pierce your daughters ears when they are born?
How old do you think a person should be when they get a piercing?
Is a piercing a parents decision or the child's decision?
How do you feel about clip-on earrings?
Do you dye your hair?
Would you dye your hair? to another natural color? to an unnatural color?
Would you put natural looking accents in your hair? Blue accents? Green? other?
How often would you change your hair color? Dye your hair?
Do you have any tattoos? If yes how many?
Do you like tattoos that people can see? that are covered?
Do you want to get any tattoos?
What kind of tattoos do you like most?
If you got a tattoo, where would you put?
What would be your reason for getting or not getting a tattoo?
How do you feel about Henna Tattoos? Are they the same as permanent tattoos or different? Why?
What about tattoos from a candy wrapper? Costume tattoos?
Would you consider 'permanent make-up' that could be tattooed on a good solution? Would you have it done to you?
Do you have any piercings? Ears? Face? Other?
How do you feel about piercings on Guys? How many should a guy have?
How do you feel about piercings on Girls? How many should a girl have?
How do you feel about non-traditional piercings like the top of the ear, nose, cheek?
How do you feel about cultural piercings?
Would you want your children to have any piercings?
Would you pierce your daughters ears when they are born?
How old do you think a person should be when they get a piercing?
Is a piercing a parents decision or the child's decision?
How do you feel about clip-on earrings?
Do you dye your hair?
Would you dye your hair? to another natural color? to an unnatural color?
Would you put natural looking accents in your hair? Blue accents? Green? other?
How often would you change your hair color? Dye your hair?
Questions for Couples: Chores
How do you feel about chores?
How often do you think a house should be cleaned?
Do you prefer to do the cleaning? or would you hire someone to do it?
Would you ever hire a maid?
How clean/ dirty would you want your house when the maid arrived?
How often would you have a maid come by?
How clean do you like your house?
Are there parts that you expect to be more clean?
Do you make your bed every morning? Do you expect someone else to make the bed?
How do you feel about dishes?
Do you prefer to wash by hand or use a dishwasher?
Are washing and drying one job or two?
Do you prefer to wash or dry?
Who takes out the trash?
How do you feel about yard work?
Would you hire a yard care service?
What about a neighborhood child?
Do you enjoy weeding?
Do you enjoy a garden?
Do you care how your yard looks?
Do you prefer a yard that is mostly grass? Xeriscaped? Well ornamented?
Would you hire a landscaper?
Would you winterize your house yourself?
Who should rake up leaves?
Who shovels the snow?
Would you pay someone to shovel the walks?
When should the snow be shoveled? Why on earth would anyone want to live where it snows?
Snowblower or Shovel?
Do you shovel a pathwway or do you shovel the whole thing?
Do you help your neighbors clear their snow after you have finished with the snow on your property? Do you help them first? Do you know your neighbors?
Would you take your neighbors cookies? Bread?
How do you feel about borrowing food from the neighbors?
Who should do the cooking?
Can you cook?
Who prepares breakfast? is it cooked? What about dinner?
Is the person who cooks responsible for the clean-up? or is it the other persons job?
Do you prefer to have a job-chart? or do you prefer to just work on things that need to be done?
Do you use a to-do list? do you ever finish it?
Who does the laundry? How often? Is the laundry one job? two jobs? three jobs? or more?
How often do you think a house should be cleaned?
Do you prefer to do the cleaning? or would you hire someone to do it?
Would you ever hire a maid?
How clean/ dirty would you want your house when the maid arrived?
How often would you have a maid come by?
How clean do you like your house?
Are there parts that you expect to be more clean?
Do you make your bed every morning? Do you expect someone else to make the bed?
How do you feel about dishes?
Do you prefer to wash by hand or use a dishwasher?
Are washing and drying one job or two?
Do you prefer to wash or dry?
Who takes out the trash?
How do you feel about yard work?
Would you hire a yard care service?
What about a neighborhood child?
Do you enjoy weeding?
Do you enjoy a garden?
Do you care how your yard looks?
Do you prefer a yard that is mostly grass? Xeriscaped? Well ornamented?
Would you hire a landscaper?
Would you winterize your house yourself?
Who should rake up leaves?
Who shovels the snow?
Would you pay someone to shovel the walks?
When should the snow be shoveled? Why on earth would anyone want to live where it snows?
Snowblower or Shovel?
Do you shovel a pathwway or do you shovel the whole thing?
Do you help your neighbors clear their snow after you have finished with the snow on your property? Do you help them first? Do you know your neighbors?
Would you take your neighbors cookies? Bread?
How do you feel about borrowing food from the neighbors?
Who should do the cooking?
Can you cook?
Who prepares breakfast? is it cooked? What about dinner?
Is the person who cooks responsible for the clean-up? or is it the other persons job?
Do you prefer to have a job-chart? or do you prefer to just work on things that need to be done?
Do you use a to-do list? do you ever finish it?
Who does the laundry? How often? Is the laundry one job? two jobs? three jobs? or more?
Questions for Couples: Sports
How much would you spend to go to a sporting event?
How much would you spend once you got there?
Would you ever buy Season Tickets? For what sports? How often would you use them?
What type of seat would you get?
Do you have a Gym membership? Do you use it? How do you feel about Gyms?
Do you have a Wii? is that really exercise? Do you use it?
Do you prefer Dance Dance Revolution or Pump It Up Exceed? Square Dancing? Dance Clubs? Country Dancing? NO DANCING?
Do you have any injuries that keep you from being as active/ healthy as you would like?
What do you do about them?
Are you into extreme sports? to watch or to participate? Which ones do you like?
Is anything too extreme for you?
DO you consider Shuffleboard extreme?
How often do you exercise?
Do you plan on staying fit after you get married?
Are you obsessed with any sporting activities? To watch or to participate? which ones?
If your significant other was interested in Playing sports, would you play with them? would you watch?
Is there a sport that you like that you want me to watch you play or play with you?
What sports would you play? Volleyball? Soccer? Basketball? Softball? Tennis? Football? Other?
What are your hobbies/recreation preferences and limits?
What are your feelings about hunting/fishing and your/my participation in them?
Do you root for the home team? Whoever is winning? the underdog?
How many teams do you have?
How do you feel about College sports?
Would you attend? would you watch them on tv?
What about championships?
How do you feel about Pro sports?
High School Sports?
City league?
Little league or Pee Wee's?
Would you ever be a coach or referee? Do you expect your kids to participate in this type of activity? If so which sports?
How do you feel about curling?
What about Golf?
Shuffleboard?
How much would you spend once you got there?
Would you ever buy Season Tickets? For what sports? How often would you use them?
What type of seat would you get?
Do you have a Gym membership? Do you use it? How do you feel about Gyms?
Do you have a Wii? is that really exercise? Do you use it?
Do you prefer Dance Dance Revolution or Pump It Up Exceed? Square Dancing? Dance Clubs? Country Dancing? NO DANCING?
Do you have any injuries that keep you from being as active/ healthy as you would like?
What do you do about them?
Are you into extreme sports? to watch or to participate? Which ones do you like?
Is anything too extreme for you?
DO you consider Shuffleboard extreme?
How often do you exercise?
Do you plan on staying fit after you get married?
Are you obsessed with any sporting activities? To watch or to participate? which ones?
If your significant other was interested in Playing sports, would you play with them? would you watch?
Is there a sport that you like that you want me to watch you play or play with you?
What sports would you play? Volleyball? Soccer? Basketball? Softball? Tennis? Football? Other?
What are your hobbies/recreation preferences and limits?
What are your feelings about hunting/fishing and your/my participation in them?
Do you root for the home team? Whoever is winning? the underdog?
How many teams do you have?
How do you feel about College sports?
Would you attend? would you watch them on tv?
What about championships?
How do you feel about Pro sports?
High School Sports?
City league?
Little league or Pee Wee's?
Would you ever be a coach or referee? Do you expect your kids to participate in this type of activity? If so which sports?
How do you feel about curling?
What about Golf?
Shuffleboard?
Questions for Couples: Ice Breakers
Waterfalls or Water-skis?
Movie Stars or Starry Nights?
Porch swings or Golf swings?
Fig Newton or Newtonian Physics?
Computer screens or Sunscreen?
Movie Stars or Starry Nights?
Porch swings or Golf swings?
Fig Newton or Newtonian Physics?
Computer screens or Sunscreen?
Questions for Couples: Animals
Today's topic: Animals.
Do you like animals?
Are you afraid of any? Spiders? Snakes? Dogs? Mongoose?
Do you have any pets?
Do you have strong feelings towards cats? Dogs? Rodents?
Would you ever own a snake?
How about a pet insect?
Would you have a mouse as a pet? how about a rat? fish? gerbils? birds?
Would you prefer papered animals that you could sell?
How do you feel about animals from shelters?
How do you feel about horses? Cows?
Would you live on a farm?
Are you Vegetarian?
Are you Vegan?
Are you Pescatarian?
Are you some other variation of an ism that deals with what you will and will not eat?
Do you know what any of these thing really are?
Do you actually like tofu?
What are your feelings on Milk?
Do you prefer whole milk or skim milk?
Do you prefer goat's milk or cow's milk?
What are your feelings about Rice Milk? Soy Milk? Almond Milk?
What about powdered milk? and Evaporated Milk
Would you raise chickens for the eggs?
Could you eat those chickens?
Would you own your own goats (for the milk)?
Would you eat them?
Are you in favor of or against eating fish?
Are you in favor of or against eating Beef?
Are you in favor of or against eating Ham?
Are you in favor of or against eating Bacon?
Are you in favor of or against other pork products?
Are you in favor of or against eating Turkey?
Are you in favor of or against eating game birds?
Are you in favor of or against eating Large game (like deer or elk)?
Are you in favor of or against lamb/ Mutton etc.?
Are you a hunter?
How do you feel about hunting?
What if you spouse wants to?
What if you need food?
What if you spouse likes hunting shows?
How do you feel about fishing?
How do you feel about seafood?
Raw seafood?
Caviar? Escargot?
Would you kill an insect if it bugged you?
Would you kill larger animals if they bugged you?
What if an insect stung/ bit you would you kill it?
Would you use what you kill?
How much of it would you use?
Do you like animals?
Are you afraid of any? Spiders? Snakes? Dogs? Mongoose?
Do you have any pets?
Do you have strong feelings towards cats? Dogs? Rodents?
Would you ever own a snake?
How about a pet insect?
Would you have a mouse as a pet? how about a rat? fish? gerbils? birds?
Would you prefer papered animals that you could sell?
How do you feel about animals from shelters?
How do you feel about horses? Cows?
Would you live on a farm?
Are you Vegetarian?
Are you Vegan?
Are you Pescatarian?
Are you some other variation of an ism that deals with what you will and will not eat?
Do you know what any of these thing really are?
Do you actually like tofu?
What are your feelings on Milk?
Do you prefer whole milk or skim milk?
Do you prefer goat's milk or cow's milk?
What are your feelings about Rice Milk? Soy Milk? Almond Milk?
What about powdered milk? and Evaporated Milk
Would you raise chickens for the eggs?
Could you eat those chickens?
Would you own your own goats (for the milk)?
Would you eat them?
Are you in favor of or against eating fish?
Are you in favor of or against eating Beef?
Are you in favor of or against eating Ham?
Are you in favor of or against eating Bacon?
Are you in favor of or against other pork products?
Are you in favor of or against eating Turkey?
Are you in favor of or against eating game birds?
Are you in favor of or against eating Large game (like deer or elk)?
Are you in favor of or against lamb/ Mutton etc.?
Are you a hunter?
How do you feel about hunting?
What if you spouse wants to?
What if you need food?
What if you spouse likes hunting shows?
How do you feel about fishing?
How do you feel about seafood?
Raw seafood?
Caviar? Escargot?
Would you kill an insect if it bugged you?
Would you kill larger animals if they bugged you?
What if an insect stung/ bit you would you kill it?
Would you use what you kill?
How much of it would you use?
Questions for Couples: Complaining.
Is there a time for complaining?
What do you complain about?
Who do you complain to?
How often do you complain?
If you got the wrong meal would you send it back?
If your meal wasn't cooked right would you send it back?
Would you air your grievances to the other people you are with?
Do you dwell on things like this?
What if you get a room that you don't like?
While on a business trip? While on vacation?
Does the type of room you get matter?
What about the direction it faces?
What if you get a smoking room, but you asked for a non-smoking one?
What if you're room has bugs?
What if the TV or microwave didn't work?
How many times would you change rooms?
Do you complain to people who can do something?
Do you complain to the worker or the manager?
Do you complain to both worker and manager? and everyone in between?
Do you complain about things you can do something about?
Do you complain about things you can do nothing about?
Do you complain about things that the person you're complaining to can do something about?
Do you complain about things that no one can do something about?
Do you complain about the weather? If you do what type of weather?
Do you complain about traffic? Do you complain about people who drive too fast?
What about people who drive to slow? What about people who drive the speed limit?
Construction? Cops cars?
Do you write letters to complain?
Do you call people?
Do you leave notes? everywhere?
Do you write to Hollywood?
Do you write to Washington?
Do you write to the President? Your congressmen? Your Senators? Governors? Mayors? Council people?
Do you attend city council meetings?
Do you vote? Would you run? If elected would you serve?
What do you complain about?
Who do you complain to?
How often do you complain?
If you got the wrong meal would you send it back?
If your meal wasn't cooked right would you send it back?
Would you air your grievances to the other people you are with?
Do you dwell on things like this?
What if you get a room that you don't like?
While on a business trip? While on vacation?
Does the type of room you get matter?
What about the direction it faces?
What if you get a smoking room, but you asked for a non-smoking one?
What if you're room has bugs?
What if the TV or microwave didn't work?
How many times would you change rooms?
Do you complain to people who can do something?
Do you complain to the worker or the manager?
Do you complain to both worker and manager? and everyone in between?
Do you complain about things you can do something about?
Do you complain about things you can do nothing about?
Do you complain about things that the person you're complaining to can do something about?
Do you complain about things that no one can do something about?
Do you complain about the weather? If you do what type of weather?
Do you complain about traffic? Do you complain about people who drive too fast?
What about people who drive to slow? What about people who drive the speed limit?
Construction? Cops cars?
Do you write letters to complain?
Do you call people?
Do you leave notes? everywhere?
Do you write to Hollywood?
Do you write to Washington?
Do you write to the President? Your congressmen? Your Senators? Governors? Mayors? Council people?
Do you attend city council meetings?
Do you vote? Would you run? If elected would you serve?
Memorial Day Special: Questions for Couples
When you think of Memorial Day what do you think?
Do you celebrate Memorial Day?
Do you visit a cemetery?
Do you visit multiple cemeteries?
Do you have to visit every cemetery where you have relatives?
Do you think of Memorial Day as a day to celebrate anyone who is no longer living? Anyone who has served in the military? Specifically those died in the civil war?
How do you feel about veterans?
How do you feel about the military?
Do you take flowers to graves? If yes what kind of flowers? Does the type of flower matter to you? Does the color of flower matter to you? Would you take fake flowers to a grave? Would you take flowers from another's grave?
Do you like to go early to clean headstones?
Have you ever lost someone close to you?
How many grandparents do you have living?
Do you know where all of your relatives are buried?
Is Memorial Day more about those who have past on or those that you are with?
Does Memorial Day make you sad?
Would you fly a flag for memorial day?
When you visit a cemetery do you prefer to know where you are going, or to wander until you find your relatives?
How do you feel about walking through cemeteries?
Are there places that you won't walk?
Would you sit on a headstone?
Do you have feelings about hats in a cemetery?
Do you know what a dirge is? do you have any feelings about them?
Do you have any other memorial day traditions?
Barbeques? Picnics? Softball games? Camping?
Does Memorial Day = Watermelon? Can you pick a good watermelon?
Do you celebrate Memorial Day?
Do you visit a cemetery?
Do you visit multiple cemeteries?
Do you have to visit every cemetery where you have relatives?
Do you think of Memorial Day as a day to celebrate anyone who is no longer living? Anyone who has served in the military? Specifically those died in the civil war?
How do you feel about veterans?
How do you feel about the military?
Do you take flowers to graves? If yes what kind of flowers? Does the type of flower matter to you? Does the color of flower matter to you? Would you take fake flowers to a grave? Would you take flowers from another's grave?
Do you like to go early to clean headstones?
Have you ever lost someone close to you?
How many grandparents do you have living?
Do you know where all of your relatives are buried?
Is Memorial Day more about those who have past on or those that you are with?
Does Memorial Day make you sad?
Would you fly a flag for memorial day?
When you visit a cemetery do you prefer to know where you are going, or to wander until you find your relatives?
How do you feel about walking through cemeteries?
Are there places that you won't walk?
Would you sit on a headstone?
Do you have feelings about hats in a cemetery?
Do you know what a dirge is? do you have any feelings about them?
Do you have any other memorial day traditions?
Barbeques? Picnics? Softball games? Camping?
Does Memorial Day = Watermelon? Can you pick a good watermelon?
Questions for Couples: Homes
What type of house would you prefer to live in?
Would you live in a trailer park?
Would you live in a mobile home? not in a trailer park?
How do you feel about manufactured homes? what about manufactured homes on land that you do not own?
Would you live in a condominium? What about a Town Home?
How do you feel about starter homes?
Would you prefer to buy a house or build one?
Would you buy a home if it needed repairs?
Would you buy an old house? how old?
How much repairs are you willing to do on a home?
How handy are you?
Would you want to fix your house yourself? or would you rather hire people to do it.
How do you feel about living in a house while it is being worked on.
Carpet? Tile? Hardwood floors? Linoleum? What are you talking about... I prefer dirt.
Same question a) for bathrooms b) for the kitchen c) Bedrooms d) other rooms
How do you feel about rugs? what if they are on your head?
Do you prefer plush carpets? or something more solid?
Would you prefer to decorate the house yourself? or hire someone to do it?
Who is in charge of the decorations?
What do you think of two-toned walls?
How do you feel about wallpaper? what about textured walls?
How do you feel about carpeted walls?
How do you feel about paneling?
Are you very decisive on these types of things?
Do you like crown molding? floor boards? have any preference?
How do you feel about pictures on your walls?
What type of things would you like to have pictures of?
How do you feel about family pictures around the house?
Do you prefer photographs? lithographs? original paintings? prints? other?
Would you rather hang artwork by family and friends, or by professional artists?
Do you prefer pictures with recognizable subjects, or do you prefer abstract works?
Do you like to decorate rooms on a theme? what about the whole house?
How do you feel about antlers? taxidermy? other trophies?
Do you think of guns as something you want displayed?
What kind of things would you display?
Do you collect anything? is it beanie babies?
How would you display things? Do you like curios? cabinets? objects on furniture? hanging things on the walls? hanging things from the ceiling?
How do you feel about nails in the walls? what about stick-tak? what about tape? does it matter what kind of tape?
Do you prefer to hang pictures at eye level or some other height?
Whose eye would you level it to?
Do you like a single level house? a multi -level house?
If you want a multi- level how many levels do you want?
How do you feel about multiple levels in one room?
Do you like basements? attics?
Do you like tall ceilings? how tall?
Do you like tall counter-tops? cabinets?
How many bathrooms do you need? how many do you want?
Are half baths ok?
Do you prefer a shower or a tub?
Do you prefer a single shower head or multiple one?
Do you prefer a movable shower head or a stationary one?
Do you prefer to have things in cabinets? or on counters?
What can you leave on the counter? or the floor?
Do you have any other bathroom preferences?
Do you want a separate dining area?
How do you feel about food outside the kitchen?
Curtains? blinds? both? neither? not significant?
What type of blinds do you like, if that is your choice?
Do you know about the magic cupboard?
How do you prefer to store your kitchen knives?
Do you think a tv should be in the living room? bedroom? bathroom? kitchen? every room?
What about radios?
What type of tv do you prefer?
What size tv do you want?
Do you care about surround sound?
How do you feel about intercoms?
Do you have a favorite type of energy?
Would you use (or avoid) wind power? natural gas? propane? electricity? solar panels? hydro-electric? gas powered- generators? oil? coal? wood-burning stoves?
Do you prefer natural light? sky lights? windows? Light bulbs?
What type of light bulbs do you prefer?
Are there any that you won't use?
Do you prefer bedroom windows to face a certain direction? Why?
Do you like lots of windows?
How do you feel about windows that don't open?
Would you live in a trailer park?
Would you live in a mobile home? not in a trailer park?
How do you feel about manufactured homes? what about manufactured homes on land that you do not own?
Would you live in a condominium? What about a Town Home?
How do you feel about starter homes?
Would you prefer to buy a house or build one?
Would you buy a home if it needed repairs?
Would you buy an old house? how old?
How much repairs are you willing to do on a home?
How handy are you?
Would you want to fix your house yourself? or would you rather hire people to do it.
How do you feel about living in a house while it is being worked on.
Carpet? Tile? Hardwood floors? Linoleum? What are you talking about... I prefer dirt.
Same question a) for bathrooms b) for the kitchen c) Bedrooms d) other rooms
How do you feel about rugs? what if they are on your head?
Do you prefer plush carpets? or something more solid?
Would you prefer to decorate the house yourself? or hire someone to do it?
Who is in charge of the decorations?
What do you think of two-toned walls?
How do you feel about wallpaper? what about textured walls?
How do you feel about carpeted walls?
How do you feel about paneling?
Are you very decisive on these types of things?
Do you like crown molding? floor boards? have any preference?
How do you feel about pictures on your walls?
What type of things would you like to have pictures of?
How do you feel about family pictures around the house?
Do you prefer photographs? lithographs? original paintings? prints? other?
Would you rather hang artwork by family and friends, or by professional artists?
Do you prefer pictures with recognizable subjects, or do you prefer abstract works?
Do you like to decorate rooms on a theme? what about the whole house?
How do you feel about antlers? taxidermy? other trophies?
Do you think of guns as something you want displayed?
What kind of things would you display?
Do you collect anything? is it beanie babies?
How would you display things? Do you like curios? cabinets? objects on furniture? hanging things on the walls? hanging things from the ceiling?
How do you feel about nails in the walls? what about stick-tak? what about tape? does it matter what kind of tape?
Do you prefer to hang pictures at eye level or some other height?
Whose eye would you level it to?
Do you like a single level house? a multi -level house?
If you want a multi- level how many levels do you want?
How do you feel about multiple levels in one room?
Do you like basements? attics?
Do you like tall ceilings? how tall?
Do you like tall counter-tops? cabinets?
How many bathrooms do you need? how many do you want?
Are half baths ok?
Do you prefer a shower or a tub?
Do you prefer a single shower head or multiple one?
Do you prefer a movable shower head or a stationary one?
Do you prefer to have things in cabinets? or on counters?
What can you leave on the counter? or the floor?
Do you have any other bathroom preferences?
Do you want a separate dining area?
How do you feel about food outside the kitchen?
Curtains? blinds? both? neither? not significant?
What type of blinds do you like, if that is your choice?
Do you know about the magic cupboard?
How do you prefer to store your kitchen knives?
Do you think a tv should be in the living room? bedroom? bathroom? kitchen? every room?
What about radios?
What type of tv do you prefer?
What size tv do you want?
Do you care about surround sound?
How do you feel about intercoms?
Do you have a favorite type of energy?
Would you use (or avoid) wind power? natural gas? propane? electricity? solar panels? hydro-electric? gas powered- generators? oil? coal? wood-burning stoves?
Do you prefer natural light? sky lights? windows? Light bulbs?
What type of light bulbs do you prefer?
Are there any that you won't use?
Do you prefer bedroom windows to face a certain direction? Why?
Do you like lots of windows?
How do you feel about windows that don't open?
Questions for Couples
Where are you from?
Does it bother you that I just ended that sentence with a preposition?
Do you know what a preposition is?
Does it bother you that I just ended that sentence with a preposition?
Do you know what a preposition is?
Questions for Couples: Money - Part I
Do you have a budget?
If yes, how well do you follow that budget?
Do you save some of your money?
Do you currently have money in savings?
What are your feelings about debt?
For what do you think it is acceptable to go into debt?
How much debt are you willing to carry?
Do you have any debts?
If yes what type of debts do you have? Mortgage? Car loans? Business? School?
Do you have any credit Card debt?
What interest rate do you get on your credit card(s)?
If you use a credit card, how do you use it?
What are good reasons for using a credit card?
How do you feel about pay-day loans?
Do you know your credit score? How is it?
Do you check your credit regularly?
Do you have a checking account?
How often do you use it?
Do you prefer to use a debit card, or a check?
How do you keep track of your purchases?
How well do you keep track of account balances?
Do you ever over-draw your account (or bounce a check)?
How often do you bounce checks?
Do you think that a couple should have all their money in one account? or should each person have separate accounts?
Do you have a specific bank that you have to use?
Do you have any banks that you want to avoid?
Do you think that all your money should be in one bank, or do you think that you should split your money among various banks?
Are you loyal to a bank? or do you look for the best deals?
What are your thoughts about credit unions? Do you prefer? Avoid? or have no preference?
What type of bank accounts do you have? Cds? Savings? Checking? Interest Checking? Money Market?
What are your thoughts on investing?
Do you have any investments?
How do you feel about the stock market?
What is your investment style?
Do you prefer low risk or high yield?
How do you feel about mutual funds?
What about hedge funds?
What do you think about investing in real-estate?
Would you invest in real-estate for speculation? or as a long term asset?
If you invest in real-estate, how would you do it?
Would you invest in undeveloped land?
What about unincorporated rural areas?
Would you buy houses? or apartments?
If you owned rental properties would you manage them yourself or would you hire a management company?
How would you go about getting things fixed in your rental properties? Would you do it yourself?
Do you think all houses are "temporary investments," or do you prefer to stay in a house once it is yours?
Do you have a mortgage?
Is it upside down?
If you have a mortgage, how many years do you have left on it? How large are the monthly payments?
Do you prefer to pay monthly or bi-weekly?
How do you feel about Adjustable Rate Mortgages?
How do you feel about Interest only loans?
What are your thoughts on Reverse Mortgages? (When the bank pays you for X amount of years and then claims the property when you pass away)
What are your thoughts on Second Mortgages?
How do you feel about Home Equity loans?
Would you use a Home Equity loan for repairs or improvements to your home? Would you use a Home equity loan for things not related to your home?
When does a house become a home?
How do you feel about owning a home verses renting?
If yes, how well do you follow that budget?
Do you save some of your money?
Do you currently have money in savings?
What are your feelings about debt?
For what do you think it is acceptable to go into debt?
How much debt are you willing to carry?
Do you have any debts?
If yes what type of debts do you have? Mortgage? Car loans? Business? School?
Do you have any credit Card debt?
What interest rate do you get on your credit card(s)?
If you use a credit card, how do you use it?
What are good reasons for using a credit card?
How do you feel about pay-day loans?
Do you know your credit score? How is it?
Do you check your credit regularly?
Do you have a checking account?
How often do you use it?
Do you prefer to use a debit card, or a check?
How do you keep track of your purchases?
How well do you keep track of account balances?
Do you ever over-draw your account (or bounce a check)?
How often do you bounce checks?
Do you think that a couple should have all their money in one account? or should each person have separate accounts?
Do you have a specific bank that you have to use?
Do you have any banks that you want to avoid?
Do you think that all your money should be in one bank, or do you think that you should split your money among various banks?
Are you loyal to a bank? or do you look for the best deals?
What are your thoughts about credit unions? Do you prefer? Avoid? or have no preference?
What type of bank accounts do you have? Cds? Savings? Checking? Interest Checking? Money Market?
What are your thoughts on investing?
Do you have any investments?
How do you feel about the stock market?
What is your investment style?
Do you prefer low risk or high yield?
How do you feel about mutual funds?
What about hedge funds?
What do you think about investing in real-estate?
Would you invest in real-estate for speculation? or as a long term asset?
If you invest in real-estate, how would you do it?
Would you invest in undeveloped land?
What about unincorporated rural areas?
Would you buy houses? or apartments?
If you owned rental properties would you manage them yourself or would you hire a management company?
How would you go about getting things fixed in your rental properties? Would you do it yourself?
Do you think all houses are "temporary investments," or do you prefer to stay in a house once it is yours?
Do you have a mortgage?
Is it upside down?
If you have a mortgage, how many years do you have left on it? How large are the monthly payments?
Do you prefer to pay monthly or bi-weekly?
How do you feel about Adjustable Rate Mortgages?
How do you feel about Interest only loans?
What are your thoughts on Reverse Mortgages? (When the bank pays you for X amount of years and then claims the property when you pass away)
What are your thoughts on Second Mortgages?
How do you feel about Home Equity loans?
Would you use a Home Equity loan for repairs or improvements to your home? Would you use a Home equity loan for things not related to your home?
When does a house become a home?
How do you feel about owning a home verses renting?
Questions for Couples: Vacations
What is your vacation style?
Do you want to go and relax?
Do you want to cram in as much cool stuff as possible?
Is sleeping-in a requirement? What about sleeping period?
Do you care more for low prices or fun things?
Is your priority eating familiar foods or do you like to try something uniquely local?
If you've seen one museum, have you truly seen them all? Really Dad?
If traveling over a Sunday, do you want to attend church in the area?
If yes, all of church or just Sacrament Meeting?
If no, do you care if the people you are with go, or will that derail your schedule?
Do you expect to do everything with the people you travel with or do you plan to go your own way every now and then?
Are you particular about your traveling companion's suitcase cleanliness when staying more than one night in the same place?
Would you consider brown-bagging a meal or two?
Would you sacrifice and/or postpone greatly eating a meal in order to arrive at a destination earlier?
How far are you willing to travel in a day?
Will you use the most cost-effective method or the most comfortable?
Would you take a taxi? What about a bus? The train or subway?
How do feel about cruising? What about flying?
Will you travel outside the U.S.?
How long is your ideal vacation?
Do you prefer to repeat favorite vacation destinations? Or are you more interested in going someplace new?
How do you feel about camping? What about R.V.s?
Do you need your own personal entourage just for your luggage? Is one carry-on all you ever need?
What are your hotel amenity requirements?
Do you prefer to visit family and stay with them?
What about visiting family and not staying with them?
If visiting family do you want to sight-see with them or just visit them?
Is planning part of the fun for you?
Would you rather plan a vacation than go on one?
Do you want reservations at every stop or just whatever is available when you get there?
What about traveling during the peak vacation season? For or against?
Do large crowds of other vacationers make you stay away?
Are you willing to do typical tourist stuff?
Would you do a spa vacation?
What about thrill-seeking/extreme activities?
Do you snore? If yes, how badly?
Do you talk in your sleep? If yes, do you say anything interesting?
Do you take hotel mini-shampoos, etc.? What about towels or pillows? Where do you draw the line?
How do you feel about tipping? Are you more on the generous or cheap side? Who do you tip? Cab drivers? Maids?
If flying, do you go first-class or economy?
Are there airlines that you won't fly with?
Do you like to travel on your own or with a group?
If with a group, on an official tour?
Do you speak any foreign languages? If yes, do you mind translating?
Submited by my sister (with contributions from me).
Do you want to go and relax?
Do you want to cram in as much cool stuff as possible?
Is sleeping-in a requirement? What about sleeping period?
Do you care more for low prices or fun things?
Is your priority eating familiar foods or do you like to try something uniquely local?
If you've seen one museum, have you truly seen them all? Really Dad?
If traveling over a Sunday, do you want to attend church in the area?
If yes, all of church or just Sacrament Meeting?
If no, do you care if the people you are with go, or will that derail your schedule?
Do you expect to do everything with the people you travel with or do you plan to go your own way every now and then?
Are you particular about your traveling companion's suitcase cleanliness when staying more than one night in the same place?
Would you consider brown-bagging a meal or two?
Would you sacrifice and/or postpone greatly eating a meal in order to arrive at a destination earlier?
How far are you willing to travel in a day?
Will you use the most cost-effective method or the most comfortable?
Would you take a taxi? What about a bus? The train or subway?
How do feel about cruising? What about flying?
Will you travel outside the U.S.?
How long is your ideal vacation?
Do you prefer to repeat favorite vacation destinations? Or are you more interested in going someplace new?
How do you feel about camping? What about R.V.s?
Do you need your own personal entourage just for your luggage? Is one carry-on all you ever need?
What are your hotel amenity requirements?
Do you prefer to visit family and stay with them?
What about visiting family and not staying with them?
If visiting family do you want to sight-see with them or just visit them?
Is planning part of the fun for you?
Would you rather plan a vacation than go on one?
Do you want reservations at every stop or just whatever is available when you get there?
What about traveling during the peak vacation season? For or against?
Do large crowds of other vacationers make you stay away?
Are you willing to do typical tourist stuff?
Would you do a spa vacation?
What about thrill-seeking/extreme activities?
Do you snore? If yes, how badly?
Do you talk in your sleep? If yes, do you say anything interesting?
Do you take hotel mini-shampoos, etc.? What about towels or pillows? Where do you draw the line?
How do you feel about tipping? Are you more on the generous or cheap side? Who do you tip? Cab drivers? Maids?
If flying, do you go first-class or economy?
Are there airlines that you won't fly with?
Do you like to travel on your own or with a group?
If with a group, on an official tour?
Do you speak any foreign languages? If yes, do you mind translating?
Submited by my sister (with contributions from me).
Questions for Couples: Food
Do you have any Holiday food traditions?
What do you eat for Thanksgiving Dinner?
What do you do for Birthdays?
How many meals do you eat each day?
Who prepared the meals in your family?
Do you think that a family should eat together? For which meals?
How often did your dad cook meals?
How often did your mom cook for you?
How important are your family recipes to you?
How often do you cook?
How well do you cook?
What do you think about a cooked breakfast?
How often do you like to eat out?
What type of restaurants do you like the most?
What type of restaurants do you like the least?
How picky are you about your pizza?
What is your favorite kind/ brand of pizza?
How do you think cooking duties should be divided?
How important is this to you?
How do you think shopping duties should be divided?
Are there stores for which you have strong feelings?
Do you prefer to buy things at one store or shop around?
What are your feelings on coupons?
Are there any specialty stores that you like to frequent?
Do you have any food allergies?
Are there foods that you will not eat?
Are there foods where you have to buy certain brands?
What are your feelings about fruits and vegetables?
Do you want to have a garden?
Who decides what will be planted in the garden?
Who takes care of the garden? Watering? Weeding?
What are your thoughts on pesticides?
Who will harvest your produce?
Do you make your own juice?
What are your thoughts on canning?
What are your thoughts on food storage?
What do you eat for Thanksgiving Dinner?
What do you do for Birthdays?
How many meals do you eat each day?
Who prepared the meals in your family?
Do you think that a family should eat together? For which meals?
How often did your dad cook meals?
How often did your mom cook for you?
How important are your family recipes to you?
How often do you cook?
How well do you cook?
What do you think about a cooked breakfast?
How often do you like to eat out?
What type of restaurants do you like the most?
What type of restaurants do you like the least?
How picky are you about your pizza?
What is your favorite kind/ brand of pizza?
How do you think cooking duties should be divided?
How important is this to you?
How do you think shopping duties should be divided?
Are there stores for which you have strong feelings?
Do you prefer to buy things at one store or shop around?
What are your feelings on coupons?
Are there any specialty stores that you like to frequent?
Do you have any food allergies?
Are there foods that you will not eat?
Are there foods where you have to buy certain brands?
What are your feelings about fruits and vegetables?
Do you want to have a garden?
Who decides what will be planted in the garden?
Who takes care of the garden? Watering? Weeding?
What are your thoughts on pesticides?
Who will harvest your produce?
Do you make your own juice?
What are your thoughts on canning?
What are your thoughts on food storage?
Question: Differences
Today's Question deals with differences.
It is both one question and a series.
So here you go.
In a relationship, how important is race or culture?
What about economic background? and economic present?
What about social and educational backgrounds?
What are the significant differences between people?
It is both one question and a series.
So here you go.
In a relationship, how important is race or culture?
What about economic background? and economic present?
What about social and educational backgrounds?
What are the significant differences between people?
Questions for Couples (names)
What is your philosophy regarding the naming of children?
What type of names do you like?
Are there family names that you need to use?
Are there any names in particular that you need to name your future children?
How do you feel about middle names for boys?
How do you feel about middle names for girls?
What type of names do you like?
Are there family names that you need to use?
Are there any names in particular that you need to name your future children?
How do you feel about middle names for boys?
How do you feel about middle names for girls?
Questions for Couples
1. What are your expectations for employment? Are both of you expected to be employed or will one person stay at home and raise children full time?
2. What are your preferences and restrictions as far as where to live? Is there a place you have to live? Or are you flexible?
3. With how much frequency are you in contact with your mom or dad?
4. What are your expectations as far as wedding receptions go? (i.e. what is your mom going to make me do?)
5. What are your feelings about birth control?
6. Do you want to rent or get a house immediately?
7. Are you in debt?
8. Do you have any food restrictions? Or even extreme pickiness with regard to some foods?
9. Do you believe in going to doctors and getting medicine?
10. Do you have health problems or any that run in the family?
11. Are you on medication? Like, do you use anti-depressants?
12. Do you have any sexually-transmitted diseases?
13. Do you have any children?
14. Are you addicted to pornography?
15. Do you have a history of pornography viewership?
16. Do you gamble?
17. Do you like to be pampered or waited on when you're sick or do you want to be left alone?
18. Which philosophy do you subscribe to: sleep on it or don't go to bed angry?
19. How short is your fuse? How much of a temper do you have?
20. Do you have a history of violence?
21. Would you ever hit someone because you were angry?
22. Do you like children?
23. Do you want children?
24. Is there a certain number of children that you want to have?
25. How frugal are you?
26. Do you spend your paycheck when you get it or do you have a budget and savings plan?
27. Do you know how much money is in your checking account right now?
28. How often do you exercise?
29. Do you plan on staying fit after you get married?
30. What time do you go to bed?
31. What time do you get up?
32. Do you have any special restrictions or desires for birthing? i.e. do you only believe in home births? Are you against the use of drugs during birth?
33. What is your stance on immunizations?
34. Do you have any opinions regarding public school vs home schooling vs private schooling?
35. What family traditions do you have that you would want to carry into the relationship?
36. Which holidays do we need to spend at your family's house?
37. What do you like to do on Sundays?
38. Are you obsessed with anything (such as sports, movies, movie stars, knitting, cats, cars, guns, exercise, sleep, chocolate, drugs)
39. Will you play volleyball with my friends and I on Thursday nights?
40. Is there a sport that you like that you want me to watch you play or play with you?
41. What are your hobbies/recreation preferences and limits?
42. Do you have a valid passport?
43. Are you a legal U.S. citizen?
44. Are you afraid of spiders or insects, and will you kill them? (oh, and snakes)
45. What are your feelings about hunting/fishing and your/my participation in them?
46. If there were a draft, would you dodge it?
47. Do you have any extreme fears?
48. What are your homemaking skills?
49. Are you able to feed yourself without the use of fast food or restaurants?
50. Can you do your own laundry?
51. What is your philosophy regarding the toilet seat and its up/down status?
52. Do you have any strong feelings about where to squeeze the toothpaste tube?
53. Do you have a certain way that the toilet paper roll needs to lie?
54. Do you want to have kids right away?
55. Could you imagine populating the earth with me?
56. How much alone time do you expect or need?
57. What are your expectations as far as dating after a marriage?
58. If we are unable to have children, what are your feelings about adoption, in vitro fertilization, etc.?
59. Are you attracted to members of the same sex?
60. Have you had any experiences or transactions that would have future repercussions? i.e. baggage?
61. Do you swear a lot?
62. How much time do you spend online?
63. How much time do you spend watching television?
64. Will you buy me flowers after we're married?
65. How much do you expect to hang out with your friends after we're married?
66. How much do you expect me to hang out with my friends after we're married?
67. Will you hang out with my friends now and after we're married?
68. Are there any friends of the opposite sex with whom you will want to stay in somewhat frequent contact?
69. What is your philosophy as far as maintaining friendships with people of the opposite sex?
70. Are there any members of the opposite sex that you will want to avoid or that I can help you avoid?
71. Do you have a history of substance abuse of any kind?
72. Do you have expectations as far as children's participation in sports or music/art?
73. Do you have a history of abuse (being the abuser or the person who has been abused)?
74. How clean do you expect your living environment to be?
75. How often do you shower?
76. Are there any issues in your immediate or extended family that I should be aware of?
77. Have you ever had depression?
78. Is there a history of mental illness in your family?
79. What is your political affiliation, if any?
80. What are your expectations as far as sex goes? i.e. frequency?
81. Do you have issues with people touching you?
82. Do you have emotional boundary issues?
83. What are your expectations as far as raising children goes? How often will you be willing to watch them or change their diapers, for example?
These questions were submitted by friends.
LDS Questions for Couples
Strictly LDS-based questions:
1. Are you temple-worthy?
2. How often do you want to go to the temple?
3. Are you a full tithe payer?
4. What are your habits as far as other church giving is concerned?
5. How diligent are you in your home/visiting teaching?
6. If I asked you for a blessing right now, could you give me one?
7. What is your philosophy as far as the accepting of church callings go?
8. If I had a time-consuming church calling, in what form would you want or not want to support me in it?
9. How important is modesty to you?
10. What kinds of clothes would you expect our children to wear/not wear?
11. Do you have any restrictions as far as movies are concerned? i.e. no R, PG-13, PG, etc.?
12. At what age would you let your/our children date?
13. Do you listen to a lot of EFY music/ What are you feelings about EFY music?
14. What is your philosophy as far as watching TV on Sunday? Doing homework? Working?
15. What is your philosophy on fasting?
16. To you, what does it mean to be a full tithe payer?
17. Have you had any issues with church leaders in the past or do you currently have problems with them?
18. What is your philosophy on family prayer, family scripture study, and family home evening?
These questions were submitted by some of my friends.
1. Are you temple-worthy?
2. How often do you want to go to the temple?
3. Are you a full tithe payer?
4. What are your habits as far as other church giving is concerned?
5. How diligent are you in your home/visiting teaching?
6. If I asked you for a blessing right now, could you give me one?
7. What is your philosophy as far as the accepting of church callings go?
8. If I had a time-consuming church calling, in what form would you want or not want to support me in it?
9. How important is modesty to you?
10. What kinds of clothes would you expect our children to wear/not wear?
11. Do you have any restrictions as far as movies are concerned? i.e. no R, PG-13, PG, etc.?
12. At what age would you let your/our children date?
13. Do you listen to a lot of EFY music/ What are you feelings about EFY music?
14. What is your philosophy as far as watching TV on Sunday? Doing homework? Working?
15. What is your philosophy on fasting?
16. To you, what does it mean to be a full tithe payer?
17. Have you had any issues with church leaders in the past or do you currently have problems with them?
18. What is your philosophy on family prayer, family scripture study, and family home evening?
These questions were submitted by some of my friends.
Question: AGE
So I thought I would start this out with a very simple but very interesting topic.
In dating how important is Age?
What does it mean? and Why is it relevant?
And of course, how should/ do people decide what ages they should/ could be dating?
Feel free to share your thoughts on this, even if I already know them.
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